"She never imagined that a daughter could demand so much attention, 
She thought there would be son
For she was told that women hide in shadows, don’t raise their voice "

Imam Al-Ghazali - Categories of Love

Al Ghazali is telling us to look at ourselves and constantly revert back to God alone, to break the secondary needs to please others and to question our intentions in every realm of life, to constantly come face to face with ourselves and our perceptions and to always strive to please our Creator above all else.